Here's Why There's No Need to Flush All Those Memories After a Break-up 

This is called a perfect closure.

Here's Why There's No Need to Flush All Those Memories After a Break-up 
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Being in a relationship with someone comes with pros and cons. You enjoy when you guys are together and the resultant lovey-dovey feelings. But are completely shattered when it is called off! #HarshReality, yet pretty common. 

While breakups tend to hurt to the core, but why do we simply flip the positivity of love after a breakup, why don't we value those blessed moments together and instead cry with them. Rather, you must be happy to have witnessed those moments of cheerfulness and feelings, to make you what you are today.

Here, we would like to convince you to live, without destroying those memories. Read on.

They help you identify your emotional needs.

They help you identify your emotional needs.

While you revisit those mementos and photographs, you discover how have your emotional needs changed or rather evolved. They mark a chronology of how you have grown in your emotions.

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Those memories are a testimony to the gala time you had in your life. 

Those memories are a testimony to the gala time you had in your life. 
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They will also remind you to keep those moments as a fond memory and not just simply burst with tears like a cry baby. Rather, 'not flushing' them is a mark of strength that you possess. 

They re-instate the fact that if you 'loved' someone, you can 'love' someone now, too. 

They re-instate the fact that if you 'loved' someone, you can 'love' someone now, too. 
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Humans these days are devoid of love and are too easy to be broken. The pillars of strength, those memories will help you love again, 'confidence-restorers'!

They have become a part of your life, even if you want to give up on them, 'cause you gave them time.

They have become a part of your life, even if you want to give up on them, 'cause you gave them time.
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You can take anything from anyone, but surely not the time you spent with them. This is why, they have been etched in your life, forever. 

If you can revisit the memories without any grief then that is the perfect closure.

If you can revisit the memories without any grief then that is the perfect closure.
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Yes, believe me on this. A perfect closure is when you do not feel the grief when you suddenly have a trip down the memory lane or anything unexpected about the two of you pops up.

You are a collection of people, because they also invested in you.

You are a collection of people, because they also invested in you.
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They make you who you are today. Simply forgetting them is like a betrayal to self. 

You have the right to celebrate life your way, why get affected by what the world has to say. 

You have the right to celebrate life your way, why get affected by what the world has to say. 
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This is for the ones who take down photos from the social media thinking that people will have an opinion of them. But, people always have something to say even if you do or not do anything. 


Please do not be swayed by their views or judgements, when you have you have a louder innervoice!