10 Common Unknown Mistakes That Most Women Make In Bed

Cheat sheet for all the lovely ladies.

10 Common Unknown Mistakes That Most Women Make In Bed
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Women love it when their man approaches them in the bed, when he makes her feel special about her body and her emotions, when he pampers her. But there are a lot of things that women should keep in mind when under the sheets. Not only should she initiate but also actively participate in the act. 

Ladies, he is not always responsible to get things right, you too hold an equal stake in the relationship, thus you should note these mistakes and refrain from them as much as possible. You are an adult, thus you are mature enough to think. But at times, when the things go usual, it is difficult to figure out the mistakes. So, here we are at your rescue to spice things up again, letting you know the possible mistakes you may be committing. 

Try and accept them and learn from them, see the difference this will make in your relationship.

#1. Not saying what you want.

#1. Not saying what you want.

Ladies, men are not mind-readers. You have to speak clearly what you desire and what you don't! Be vocal about your needs and desires. The clearer the communication, the better the relationship in bed.

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#2. Hiding your feelings for him.

#2. Hiding your feelings for him.
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I mean why? Why do you do these things? This hurts not only you but him too. This simply brings all the spirits of the man down. Please do not pretend that you don't feel for him when you actually feel for him. Chuck ego and talk things out.

#3. Faking orgasm.

#3. Faking orgasm.
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Girls, this is a CRIME! This is big-time fake and may involve a lot of trust issues. So, say it if you are not able to make it, instead of faking it. The man will feel broken if he discovers it was a fake big-O!

#4. No need to be shy in bed.

#4. No need to be shy in bed.
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Refrain from this bullshit. Being too shy is a big-time low. You are an adult and are thereby consent, so why shy, babe?

#5. Chuck the overthinker in you.

#5. Chuck the overthinker in you.
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Slow, thoughtful moves point towards a lack of interest from your side. So, keep your thinking cap aside when you are in bed with him. A well-paced session makes for a good one. 

#6. Show-off is a complete no-no!

#6. Show-off is a complete no-no!
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Do not ever pretend to be more experienced than you actually are. Be open and accept if you are new to something while being intimate. He will be more than happy to teach you, instead of discovering an unnecessarily over smart babe in you.

#7. Stop doubting him if he does try something new.

#7. Stop doubting him if he does try something new.
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Girl, try and have faith in him. He will always try to stand up to your trust in him. Please impart meaning to things that actually need it. If he is trying that new move with his tongue, this does not mean he is cheating on you.

#8. Not initiating the act.

#8. Not initiating the act.
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Every guy appreciates an active initiation. As mentioned earlier, it is an equal responsibility for you to get him into the mood. Do not always ride the backseat. See the magic of initiation once, he will love it. 

#9. Stop being nervous about how you look.

#9. Stop being nervous about how you look.
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When you bare clothes in front of him, he is not there to judge on the extra pound that you have put on. He wants you to be comfy on your skin and be proud of all the curves and the edges. Your confidence is directly proportional to his happiness, but don't be over-confident.

#10. Don't let boredom grip you.

#10. Don't let boredom grip you.
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If it is going too monotonous, it is you who has to take things in your hands and shake them up, until they are all fun. Do not just let it go. 

So ladies, now that you have learned, do share in the comments section below if you see your man making any mistakes while under the sheets. We would love to equip them, too.