It's hard to say why exactly you start to like someone or something. The reason could be anything, from their goofy smiles to razor-sharp sarcasm, or maybe their presence is enough for you to feel comfortable and safe. There's no reason to like or hate someone. You just simply like or hate them. However, if you'll say the same thing to scientists, then they may laugh at you. Science doesn't believe in 'there's-no-reason' theory as it says "nothing happens in this world for no reason." Scientists would spend decades to find the answers, but they'll only believe in something when it has been proven right using technological tools and methods.
Apparently, science also believes in the beauty of mental powers that your mind possess and even accepts the fact that you could achieve anything you want using the powerful psychological tools.
We at WIttyFeed have compiled the list of such psychological tricks, which could help you in achieving what you desire.
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We all have that urge inside us, the one which asks us to belong to at least one community. It's a psychological thing, and a lot of businesses have converted this need into a trick to convert their leads into conversion. For instance, when you open a website to book a hotel, you must have noticed, it said; 'only one room left,' or 'the same room has just been booked'. 90% of the times it's a pure lie they show to attract you.
The primary task of any manipulator is to create an illusionary environment around you so that you will not notice the manipulation and start to perceive opinion as circumstances. For instance, if you fire someone, first make them realize that they're bad workers.
"All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its way." - Leo Tolstoy.
To feel the uniformity, we see ourselves like them, and when we see ourselves like them, we attract the same lifestyle in our life and hence, stereotypes are born.
If you think you're making your life, then it's an illusion. A good manipulator can seed his plans in your mind, and you'll end up believing it's yours. So instead of thinking what you want from your life, start acting upon it, with all your energy and believe that someday, you'll get there.
You can get someone feeling the guilt for you, and then get any favor you want. They're likely to agree to all your reasonable and proper requests. Moreover, they may feel that they're helping you and will be pleased doing it. Remember, in return, your 'thank you' may not be enough, and you may have to walk an extra mile to keep this relationship alive.
This is one of the techniques which is used by famous and egoistic people to make someone look dumb. For instance, when you use unique terminology, then you intentionally make your opponent look stupid, and they start to feel discomfort whenever you're around.
Everyone has two sides, one is positive, and the other one is negative. Mostly, when someone asks us about ourselves, we share our struggles, hardships and other small and big challenges we have faced in our lives, but that may not solve the purpose of making you look an active and happening person from outside in most cases.
Sometimes when we're emotionally charged and feel impulsive, we tend to agree on almost anything, without analyzing its pros and cons. If you're on the side of manipulation, then you may say that "Man, you promised that you'd help me." or "I thought I could rely on you." If you're on the manipulation receiving side, then don't be guilty of saying No.
Take any advertisement, and it's a good example. They show it to you so many times, that ultimately you end up buying that product; and in the end, you realize that it's not at all what you wanted. The main character of the film wouldn't want to meet this girl so badly if he would not have seen her a lot of times before this trip.
It's better to think beforehand, than regretting later.
According to research, the outcome in the situation will be positive if you used the word 'because.'
Also, you must try to listen attentively, understand the other person and then respond. It will help you in making you take control over situations.