Is your partner no more affectionate towards you like he used to be earlier? Is your relationship on a downhill and you just don't know what's wrong? Maybe, it has something to do with your attitude towards him. Have you ever considered that? Let me tell you today how you can make him more affectionate and lovable.
It's pretty easy to hook a guy with your good looks and flawless physique, but getting a guy to develop a deep emotional bond with you is definitely the way to win his heart. Emotional attachment is necessary for any relationship to be termed as successful and long lasting. It also makes him want to spend the rest of his life with you, and makes him go out of his way to make you happy, and leaves him yearning to spend as much quality time with you as possible.
Read these 10 tricks and do let me know if they worked for you!
Let us say you find a pair of dirty Converse sneakers on the side of the road. You pick them up and wear them because they're somewhat stylish, but best of all, they were free. They hold you over until you save up enough money to buy the pair of Gucci pumps you've been drooling over. You've been working two jobs just to save up the cash, and when you finally have enough money, you toss the Converse shoes into the trash, and start rocking those Gucci pumps every single day! They're a constant reminder of just how hard you worked to obtain them. Do you see where I'm going with this? People naturally treasure things that they work hard for, and the same is true when it comes to relationships. Men don't want a woman that any other guy can have, they want a prize. So make sure you present yourself as a woman of value. Allow him to court you and chase you, and once you let him catch you, he will want to hold on to you forever!
Whether he just got promoted or won a FIFA game against his friend, praise him for all his achievements. Your approval convinces him to feel secured and loved in this hard world. As he makes his way through his hectic everyday life, he will feel secure knowing he has you, his number one fan, cheering him on. He will ultimately feel like he can conquer anything in the world as long as he has you in his life. Giving him praise for his actions will only drive him to want to excel in every area of his life, including both of yours relationship.
If you really want your relationship to last, avoid the superficial conversations, they won't take you very far. You need to grow up and so does the topic of your conversations. Talk about what is happening in the world, the lovey-dovey discussions won't help either of you or the relationship to grow! But make sure you're focusing on the topics that you're actually interested in and subjects that you feel comfortable discussing, faking a conversation is just the worst!. If you can hold a meaningful conversation with your guy about topics other than the Kardashians and mindless gossip, he won't be able to stop himself from feeling connected to you. Also, smart is the new sexy!
If he has had a terribly tough day, the moment he meets you, he should be able to relax and smile! And that won't always happen involuntarily, you'll have to put in efforts. This scenario is exactly how your guy should feel every single day. He'll be scrambling to get home to you because being with you gives him a sense of emotional and physical safety. Your arms keep him secure, your kiss can ease his fears, and laying his head on your chest makes him feel protected from the world. Getting me?
When it comes to love and emotions, you should never make haste. Only time and patience can build up a strong relationship. That's why don't be nervous if it seems your guy is not affectionate enough. Perhaps, he needs some extra time to understand and react to all your signals. It is really an effective way to strengthen a man's affection.
The ultimate sign of trust is when you are able to keep all of your guy's secrets between the two of you. Unless he is a terrorist and works for ISIS! Jokes apart, when he knows that he can go to you and share whatever is on his mind and you won't judge him, that's when your relationship will reach the ultimate level of affection and closeness. You will become his sounding board, his best friend, and his sole confidante. If he knows deep down inside that you won't blab his inner most thoughts to your mom, all of your girlfriends, and to everyone on your Facebook friend's list, he will let down his guard and slowly become even more emotionally attached to you.
One of the reasons which make men can lose their affection is our eagerness to take the initiative and do everything on our own. Always give him a chance to express their love and emotions. This experiment is worth giving a go! Give your sweetheart some freedom for his own performance. I'm sure you will be amazed at the results.
Have you ever dated someone who picked apart all of your weaknesses every time the two of you got into an argument? Even friends and family members will go for the low blow all in the name of winning a petty argument. It's pretty much a sucky way to gain the upper hand in a disagreement. Fighting dirty with your guy will immediately destroy any trust the two of you have built throughout your relationship. NEVER do this.
Controlling behavior closes our heart and disconnects us from ourselves and our partner. When we choose to be open to learning about loving ourselves and our partner, our heart opens up which is what enables us to connect. We cannot connect with a closed heart. Choosing the intent to learn when with your partner is vital for connection.
Most men don't ask for much. All they want is to feel loved and appreciated for protecting and providing for you. After being in a relationship for years, saying "thank you" is a phrase that sometimes gets lost. Remember when he took you out on your first date? He opened up every single door for you. Show attention and affection when he does these things. It'll take you places!
That's all, fellas. You can reach out to me on firstname.lastname@example.org.