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Things Men Want From Women And How They Can Probably Give It 

All men react differently in various situations, but we should not forget that there are certain things like alcohol and women, that can make even the dead people rise from their graves and dance (Yeah, just like MJ's Thriller). Subtle things which women do, catch men's attention, and then they start to feel the need of knowing them on a deeper level.So if you want to win the right man, you first need to understand that what makes men feel more than just being a casual date. For now, forget everything, as I take you inside a man's mind to share what triggers them, and what can be done to arouse the sense of belonging in their heart, for you.FYI: We're talking about real men, the ones who are grounded on physical, mental, emotional and spiritual levels. Have a look!

#13 He likes them doggy style.

Doing it as lions showed on Discovery Channel undoubtedly arouses men. They find this stance highly ancient and erotic as it is one of the highly challenging positions for males.

#12 Talk to him about how did he like it.

At the initial level guys may feel shy to talk about what turns them on, but once to open up, all their secrets will start to come out. For starters, you may ask him about how he fantasizes you when alone, run your fingers on his genitals as he talks about the same.

#11 Hold his butt, with both the hands.

Wrapping your hands around his derriere will ignite the fire inside him, and he will feel wanted. It can turn on men faster than any of your Victoria's Secret undergarment. 

#10 Look for more foreplay, guys love that.

Extended foreplay gives men some time to think about you, fantasize you and plan things they want to do with you next. It boosts their confidence, and they start to take the lead. Also, initiate and ask him to try some new positions.

#09 Keep the lights as he wants.

There's nothing more beautiful than a woman who keeps all her guards down on the bed. The biggest turn on for males is to see his partner in her purest form, while the largest turn of could be his partner behaving embarrassed.

#08 Watch porn with him.

No matter what their age is, men of all ages enjoy watching porn. They may agree on this or not, but all of them have things they want to try with their partner.

#07 Be more assertive.

As much as men like to be in control of the situation everywhere, the bed is one place which is an exception for them. Be the one to introduce new things, take charge and dominate once in a while. If you're shy, then you can start off by showing more flesh, roaming around in the house wearing shorts and strapless dresses. We're sure you'll come up with more ideas.

#06 Seduce him.

Don't expose all of your skin at once, keep it subtle. Play a little hide and seek kind of games, strip dance could be one of the other things to try. Undo one button at a time, not all at once.

#05 It's your time to ask what you want.

When it comes to reading someone's mind, men will fail every time. So instead of letting them do what they want and lying on the bed like a dead body, tell them what could give both of you some pleasure. Speaking during intimacy is an art.

#04 Laugh at him and along with him.

Men like sense of humor, especially females who have witty one-liners at their disposal. If you could make him laugh along, you can get him to do anything.

#03 Give your man some properties, see how he reacts.

All guys want to do all the uncomfortable things to a woman, and they want a woman to do the same to them as well. However, most of the men do not tell this face-to-face so that you could take the lead and handover them props. The rest will be in control of that moment.

#02 Hold his hand, genuinely.

Most of the women tend to think that men do not like handholding, cuddling, and other forms of closeness; but that's not true. It is an overwhelming feeling. 

#01 Last, but not the least. The biggest turn on for men.

No, it's neither an oral blowjob or downward doggy style; but the sense of accomplishment which they get from you. Men love action, and they seek appreciation everywhere. Let them know you're enjoying them; they're giving you pleasure, grab them and demand directly.