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These 14 Ways Can Start The Engine Of Your Relationship's Car

When you’re in the right relationship, everything is different. The sun shines brighter, your smiles are bigger. But there comes a point in every relationship where you need to make the decision whether to stay or go. You’ve been cruising along for a while and now you’re wondering if your relationship is making a process or if it’s stuck in its tracks. Don’t discard that subtle feeling from your stomach, that’s exactly your subconscious is talking to you.I wonder whether it's only me who has this feeling? But over the course of time, I have realised it is the story of every couple. You cannot avoid ups and downs in a relationship, but you can always decide how do you want to handle it.   Here are 14 tell-tale signs that will help you to decide whether you want to stay in a relationship or call it quits.  

You definitely know how to fight without getting dirty.

Conflicts are inevitable when you are close to someone. But, knowing how to fight fair is a skill that can save a relationship. Mature, happy couples know how to stick to the topic of the argument instead of taking out each other's deep-seated insecurities that are unnecessary. 

Nobody gets grossed out by normal bodily functions. 

It is a natural process. You will fart, poop, sweat and even bleed once in a month. There is nothing wrong about it. 

You know how to resolve the fights like an adult.

You can't sleep without letting everything sorted. Instead of stretching things to the limit, focus should be always on the solution of the problem. Even if it's a big fight, and takes longer to resolve, you know it won't always be you offering the first apology. 

You will be stopped if you misbehave.

You will all agree that sometimes we become eccentric to impress someone, or talk utter nonsense, or in general behave like a jackass. If your partner wouldn't call you out, then who will? 

You have learnt to give space in your relationship.

We girls have some favourite shows that we want to watch in utter silence. You can co-exist in the same room without uttering a single word to each other. That's the best thing. Your partner will probably be reading while you watch a show he hates. 

You adore each other even with things you don't like.

Every individual has these little quirks that make them unique who they are. You really don't want to change it, unless, if they are in the habit of always leaving the kitchen counter dirty; then you need to take action.

If you can bring out the best, you can also bring out the devil.

Things can get worse, but that doesn't mean you leave things abruptly. If your partner brings out the devil in you, and you don't like being the devil, then your bae is not the one. 

You are not afraid of bursting out in front of your partner.

Your partner remains calm in front of others, but they aren't afraid to open up to you. Letting out your emotions doesn't only mean they are comfortable crying beside you. It is more about sharing your hopes, ambitions, wildest dreams, twisted fantasies, and the craziest memories without hesitation.

Somewhere in your mind, you imagine your partner right there with you.

It's not like you see them beside you in every scenario in the future, but at the back of your head, you know you are going to have him/her somewhere.

You pretend to be jealous, though you are not!

Yes, you dislike the person who flirts with your guy, but if you aren't actually jealous, then you are in the most secure phase in the relationship. Somewhere deep down you have the inner faith in your partner that lasts your relationship.

Both of you know that it is relationship between equals.

You must have given some serious thought if you are looking for a long term relation. It never has to be said out loud, but you will know in your hearts that both of you see the other as an equal, someone worthy enough to share your life with.

At the end of the day, you both smile in each other's arms.

Healthy relationships are full of laughter and fun. This doesn’t mean you’re giggling every hour of the day, but it does mean that your life together is mostly happy in sometimes simple ways. 

You have your own set of friends.

You can not hang out together every single day, every single second. You will be bored to death and get mad at each other. If you both have your own gang of friends, you have a taste of everything and have a balanced relationship.  

Doing mundane tasks together

Like it or not, your girl will take you every place where she is interested because that's the way she likes it. If you guys can shop together, buy grocery, purchase stuff for your home, then you are in the most stable relationship. I hope after reading this, you guys know the insides of your togetherness. That's all for today people, please subscribe me.