On 13-Apr-2017 In Relationship
One moment you are experiencing the bliss and the next moment, it all vanishes into thin air. Why is it that the fire that once swelled up at a mere glance goes on diminishing eventually until you both get into a habit of sleeping with your back towards each other? We often see that fire getting dull as the relationship moves with time and there is nothing that we could do to make things run smoothly as before. Some have their differences to blame, while others get tired of the same routine, but what about the couples who love each other like crazy and still find the frenzy declining? There is definitely something that is hampering your love life and affecting it silently. Wait! Are you one of those who is making these mistakes that are killing the mood and affecting your following love-making sessions? It’s not too late to mend!
Have you been in a situation where you have just got back home and cannot wait to get intimate? Or... you find your partner all set waiting for you with candles lit up and bathtub ready? Cannot even wait to change and fresh-n-up? I am sure this is common to all!
The fun begins and you are all over each other...
There are some things couples do that simply brings down the fun-o-meter and kills the bliss that you both were enjoying. Here are those mistakes you must avoid if you want to continue having a blissful life.
If you can enjoy getting messy while doing it, then why can't you wait for a li'l longer before cleaning up? Enjoy some moments with your partner after making love, everything else can wait!
If you rush to the kitchen or refrigerator soon after to eat or drink, it may signal that you were waiting to wrap up quickly and were thinking about eating all the while. This may not go down very well with your partner.
Even if you guys otherwise sleep in separate rooms, it is not a good idea to leave your partner alone in the room immediately after making out. You can always stay with him/her in his/her bed and have a cozy night ahead. Don't let them sulk or feel incomplete with you gone to your bed.
Many couples (either one or both the partners) immediately tend to doze off after a love-making session. This is definitely not done.
DON'T ever grab your phone to make a call or pick up your novel immediately after you are done making love. It may be your bedtime regime on regular days to call a friend or read some book but some moments are special, just keep them special!
This will give your partner a feeling that you were in a hurry all the while and couldn't wait to get dressed. You wouldn't like it if your partner did that to you, would you? Let your eyes and smile and hugs wind it up eventually and smoothly for you.
Were you all the time thinking about that daily soap or football match while your hormones were on fire? This is what your partner will feel if you immediately switch on the television after making love. Not a good feeling!
Well, this can be quite embarrassing for your partner to hear he/she couldn't satisfy you as well this time, and can immediately change the mood from "happy and satisfied" to "upset and incompetent". The blame game can wait, just let the sexual bliss linger on for some more time.
A big NO! I understand you have an important assignment to finish but just give a little more time to your partner who is still drooling over the lovely time he/she just had.
Ok, so you got your kids busy in some video game or sent them to a neighbor to enjoy some "me and you" time alone. But immediately after you roll away from your partner, you grab your tee and call out to your kids. Not fair! Your kids are enjoying, so should you, for a few more minutes. You do not want your partner to look flushed in front of the kids, do you?(Images used are for illustration purpose only)