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15 Signs Proving That You're Dating A Real Man And Not A Playboy

No matter how many relationships you've been in, or how many guys you have dated, there comes a time when you sit down and think about settling down in your life. Your focus now moves from flings to establishing a long-term relationship with a lot of romance and love. You no longer want to have a simple/casual relationship which revolves around the idea of dating, because you now long for loyalty. Aspects like strong relationships make you happy and for that, you're out there finding that special someone who would look at you unlike any other person in this world. You've apparently met a bunch of people that you might have fallen for. Among those, some fell for you, yet it didn't work out for either of you because you seek a compassionate person. A real man who will make a stand for you. Here's all you need to know about the man who will take you seriously.

Tells you about his dating history

He might have had a couple of girlfriends in the past but not necessary that the break was because of him. Possibly he was serious about the relationships he was in but not the other one. He is committed to you, and in the end, he has told you about his past, made himself vulnerable; doesn't happen if he's not into you. 

Hopes the best for you

Couples often argue with each other, but a real man will never want anything wrong for you. 

Motivates you

It's easy to criticize but to motivate you when you feel depressed or appreciate you when others don't, is what matters.

Stands up to mistakes

Your man will never try to evade your questions or make excuses to run from the wrongdoings. No, he'll not be proud of it but will always have that maturity to accept what's been done wrong.

Puts no pressure

He doesn't force himself upon you and understands boundaries. When you're around him, you don't feel uncomfortable, and also he makes sure that nothing he does is awkward for you.

Passionate for you

He will always lend a helping hand, and he will never make you feel jealous or anxious. Your connection is not just physical; it is also emotional.

Loves you for being weird

You will not always want to move elegantly, and your man should understand that. He loves your attractive appearance because that represents your outer self. On the other hand, if you have weird interests, your man will find it impressive.

Knows about the bad days

Many guys hate to deal with women whenever they have their periods because of the mood swings and stress, but a real man knows what to do. He will always be there and leave no stone unturned in providing comfort to you.

Keeps you happy

The whole day might have been filled with fights and silent treatment, but he will fix everything by the end of the day.

Adapts to your choices

Whether you want to party or sleep all day, he will always be the perfect person to be with. He simply knows how to adapt to the situation.

Brings the creativity for you

We know how men are, but when it comes to you, whatever it is that the two of you are celebrating, he will always find a sweet and creative way to express his affection. He will make handmade cards, food, and plan a beautiful day just to make everything as special as it should be.

Expresses love 

Whenever you are away, he will send a quick and affectionate message. He will leave you a handwritten letter if he will be away for a few days and will passionately hug you after he returns. He will tell the things you crave to know.

Understands the importance of communication

Many conflicts arise because of miscommunication, and he makes sure that you don't hold anything back. To clear misunderstandings, he takes the initiative and makes sure it doesn't ruin your relationship.

Makes time for you

Your significant other has a life of his own, but no matter how busy he would be, he'll always make time for you and ask about your day. He doesn't take you for granted and makes you his priority.

Knows you inside out

It might have happened in past that he noticed a thing about which you were also unaware of. Yes, he observes you, sees your behavior and is always keen to know your inner self rather than the outer beauty.

Bonus: Values commitments

You've reached the end, and if that all has happened for you, then you've got a real man who understands what commitments are. He has been dedicating his time to you and will never step back if you ask for loyalty.Updated by Cnishq