On 28-Feb-2016 In Relationship
In present age, relationships have become complex. A person leads multiple lives, be it with friends, family or colleagues. Since all these aspects are so fragile and intricate that we prefer to keep each of them apart. We often keep relationships and business away from the friendship. But what about getting intimate with one's best friend? How does it feel like? How will it turn out to be? How does it feel afterwards? Some people will never get to know as they are too afraid to break the ice and check the water for themselves. But we can always ask those who have tested the waters and have shared their experience. Here are few confessions revealed on Whisper, which people have revealed about their secretive relationship with their close friends.
Well, I can only imagine how terrible it must've felt. Sometimes, the sexual drive makes us take some decisions that we might end up being not very proud of.
Sometimes, you think what is happening is just right. But suddenly, the reality hits you making you realise it was anything but 'right'.
The phase of denial is the worst. You can't admit that it happened, but can also not look past it.
The moment becomes very intimate for both of you, but sometimes, this intimacy leads to distances.
Ignorance is bliss. But when you are the one ignored, it is far from bliss. Especially, when there are feelings involved.
Sometimes, it might end up being nothing, not a big deal. You might feel indifferent.
And won't it be funny, if all this ordeal turns out to be a disappointment?
The biggest fear of making such a move is that it would jeopardise the beautiful friendship that you would cherish.
Though a long time passes by, the factor of uneasiness never gets off.
And the uneasiness is mutual, some tend to try and talk it out, while some prefer to escape from the truth - not that it helps much anyway.
But at times like these, it is best to talk it out and make sure no page is left to turn over.
Not that it always turns out bad. If we talk about it, we might actually become close friends. But you have to make sure.
But you have to make sure where you are drawing your boundaries. A fling like this must not harm the those who are involved.
Talking also helps you to figure out whether you are standing on the same page. And if not, a clarification can be helpful.
And if you are on the same page, one can be lucky enough to have cool conversations like these too. But it is a risky game.
You must realise that there is a difference between friendship and love for a reason.